It all started out great. A newish Butch-Femme website and plenty to write about. Then all of a sudden, for reasons unknown, it became a place steeped in negativity and malice. I decided to take my leave of ButchFemmeDance and after posting the words for the week on the Poetry Challenge – 9 words thread, I cleared my friends list, sent PMs to those I felt needed to know, notified the “owner” of the site and altered my profile and signature appropriately. I decided to post my last post here as a reminder of what happens when negativity finds its way in.